SecretsI blog in secret. I haven't told my soulmate, my husband, my partner, my love. I don't want to tell him. I haven't told anyone else either. I think he may have guessed, but I don't care. I want a "room of my own." A place where I can explore me and reclaim who I am outside of being defined by someone else's relationship to me.
I don't know why it has to be a secret, but I know that it's ok that it is.